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Disagreeing on parenting after a separation

As if a divorce were not hard enough on its own, disagreements over parenting can seem to magnify the stress of the entire situation. California parents currently working through a such a disruption in normal family life understand the difficulty that often arises at this point in the separation. While ex-spouses may never completely agree on certain aspects of child rearing, discipline or parenting time as a whole, there are ways to navigate the process with a little more ease.

There are three routes courts usually take when determining child custody, as LiveAbout explains in an article on resolving post-divorce disputes over parenting time: physical custody to one parent (generally with visitation for one parent), legal custody to one or both parents and joint custody. In joint legal custody cases, the court expects both parents to make decisions together without assistance. However, when parents cannot come to an agreement, courts may refer the issue to a neutral third party. This third party is agreed upon by both parents. Court-ordered mediation is another solution to disputes. Lastly, LiveAbout shares that courts may intervene, depending on the situation.

When families separate, it is normal for children to go through varying stages of readjustment. According to PsychCentral, this readjustment can take time, and parents should expect possible behavioral issues after a divorce. Above all else, the mental health website stresses that disagreements over safety should be first priority; rules such as holding hands with the child across the street should be first on the list for consideration. As a younger family members grow older, separated parents must also understand the many different levels of child behavior and the issues that commonly come with these changes. When divorced parents can break free from their past and look to positive solutions for a child rearing or parenting dispute, the process can be a smoother one. 

 

 

 

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